Got those awkward meetings with people.
Well try and improve yourself. People remember you if you had a good impression on them.
Here's few tips for helping you keep going to build a firm personality.
You need to be polite and use diplomacy while talking.
Use decent words while communicating with everyone even a person younger than you.
If you speak in language other than English try and use English words as it is globally accepted everywhere.
Work on your English by listening to English music and try to listen lyrics carefully, try watching movies without using subtitle, increase your vocabulary.
Listening is a very essential part of communication.
Try seeing things from the view of the speaker.
Be Mentally present while listening.
Don't get distracted while someone is trying to explain himself.
Ask questions and give suggestions to let the other person know that you were really hearing and are worried about him or her.
Nobody wants to be around a person who is complaining all the time.
I wouldn't want to work or live with a pessimist (A person who tends to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen.)
Try to motivate others around you.
Use positive statements like “we can do it”, “we always have a choice”.
Try accompanying with someone who is optimistic to learn more.
Being able to find a humorous side in otherwise terrible situations and bringing a little quirkiness of your own is appreciated by one and all.
Everybody loves a person who can make them laugh and bring a funny perspective to the regular things of life.
One does not need to be all serious and sober all the time but showing your funny side every once in a while will turn you into a more charming personality.
Each one of us is different, we have our own sets of skills and flaws and trying to be somebody else gets you nowhere and just simply backfires. Trying too hard to fit in a new group or wanting to belong should never take your authenticity and singularity away.
Never try moulding into another person but instead work on being the best version of yourself.
Well try and improve yourself. People remember you if you had a good impression on them.
Here's few tips for helping you keep going to build a firm personality.
#1 Improve Your Communication Skills
The way you speak tells a lot about you.You need to be polite and use diplomacy while talking.
Use decent words while communicating with everyone even a person younger than you.
If you speak in language other than English try and use English words as it is globally accepted everywhere.
Work on your English by listening to English music and try to listen lyrics carefully, try watching movies without using subtitle, increase your vocabulary.
#2 Be a Patient Listener
Being a good listener is as important as narrating something.Listening is a very essential part of communication.
Try seeing things from the view of the speaker.
Be Mentally present while listening.
Don't get distracted while someone is trying to explain himself.
Ask questions and give suggestions to let the other person know that you were really hearing and are worried about him or her.
#3 Be Optimistic
Have a positive thinking towards everything.Nobody wants to be around a person who is complaining all the time.
I wouldn't want to work or live with a pessimist (A person who tends to see the worst aspect of things or believe that the worst will happen.)
Try to motivate others around you.
Use positive statements like “we can do it”, “we always have a choice”.
Try accompanying with someone who is optimistic to learn more.
#4 Be a little fun
Oh yes, this is necessary!Being able to find a humorous side in otherwise terrible situations and bringing a little quirkiness of your own is appreciated by one and all.
Everybody loves a person who can make them laugh and bring a funny perspective to the regular things of life.
One does not need to be all serious and sober all the time but showing your funny side every once in a while will turn you into a more charming personality.
#5 Be original
Though one can always look up to other people to take an inspiration from, but you should still remain your own unique self.Each one of us is different, we have our own sets of skills and flaws and trying to be somebody else gets you nowhere and just simply backfires. Trying too hard to fit in a new group or wanting to belong should never take your authenticity and singularity away.
Never try moulding into another person but instead work on being the best version of yourself.
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